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Three frameworks · 29 characters

Every type gets a face

The same character follows the type everywhere — homepage, report, and share card.

16 Personalities

MBTI · 16 TYPES

Analysts, Diplomats, Sentinels, and Explorers — the classic sixteen, each with a face.

INTJ ENFP ISFJ ESTP +12 more

Enneagram

ENNEAGRAM · 9 TYPES

Nine core motivations, from the Reformer to the Peacemaker.

Type 1 Type 4 Type 7 Type 8 +5 more

Four Tendencies

TENDENCIES · 4 TYPES

How you respond to expectations — outer, inner, both, or neither.

Upholder Questioner Obliger Rebel

Every pair gets a page

191 reports, already written

88%Flow

Counselor + Champion

trypersonality.com/mbti/enfp-and-infj

Complementary perception: matching cognitive processes, oriented in opposite directions — deep mutual fascination.

65%Mixed

Individualist + Enthusiast

trypersonality.com/enneagram/type-4-and-type-7

Depth meets velocity. The 4 wants to sit in the feeling; the 7 wants to outrun it. Named, it becomes a rhythm.

50%Friction

Upholder + Rebel

trypersonality.com/tendencies/upholder-and-rebel

Defiance cycle: the more expectations the Upholder sets, the harder the Rebel resists. The report shows the exit.

Pairs who finally get it

“The report named the exact argument we’ve had for three years — and why it isn’t actually about the dishes.”

Maya + Jon

ENFP+INTJ · 68% flow

“Reading our friction section out loud was the least defensive conversation we’ve ever had about money.”

Priya + Sam

ISFJ+ESTP · 68% flow

“Two minutes, no quiz, and my co-founder finally understands why I need a day before big decisions.”

Leo + Dana

INFP+ENTJ · 55% flow

“He books the trip, I feel the trip. The report called it depth meets velocity — now it’s our joke instead of our fight.”

Nadia + Chris

Type 4+Type 7 · 65% flow

“My sister ignores every plan I make. Turns out it isn’t spite — the report explained our defiance cycle in one paragraph.”

Tom + Ana

Upholder+Rebel · 50% flow

“We pulled up our pairing at the offsite and the whole team went quiet — then everyone looked up their own.”

Omar + Elle

INFJ+ESTP · 25% flow